Monday, June 1, 2026

TOO AUTHENTIC: 25 Years of Not Fitting In

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This memoir follows 25 years of dancing in spaces that wanted me smaller—and my refusal to shrink.
What's inside:
Chapter 1: Go-Go Dancing - Stories from village discos and city clubs where creativity was treated like rebellion. From the DJ who couldn't handle a woman who initiated, to the boss who wanted decoration instead of artistry, to discovering that "too sexual" really meant "too free."
Chapter 2: Belly Dance - Stories from the world of traditional belly dance, where innovation was viewed as vandalism. Teachers who needed obedience, schools that rejected fusion, and the realization that authentic expression threatens those who police tradition.
Chapter 3: Walked Away - Five turning points, including Slovenia's Got Talent (where the national TV audience humiliated me for having body hair), confronting a teacher who wanted devotion over sovereignty, and the moment I stopped trying to fit into spaces not designed for authentic people.
Plus: An epilogue about what I was doing till now, and the declaration I wrote in 2011 that predicted everything: "I Don't Wanna Fit In."
Each story is told with honesty, just what actually happened when I kept choosing authenticity over acceptance.
This book is for anyone who's been repeatedly rejected and has started to doubt themselves. Because after the third rejection, that voice in your head starts to whisper: "Maybe they're right. Maybe you are too much, not good enough. Maybe you should tone it down. Why can’t you just be normal? Your body should be hidden. Your sexuality is inappropriate." But you know what? Fuck that! Move on with me!
This is what sovereignty looks like in practice: seeing clearly, choosing yourself, and leaving spaces that demand you shrink.
Not perfect. Not healed. Just unapologetically authentic.


Sunday, May 31, 2026

Own the Room: How to Communicate to Be Seen, Heard and Respected

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Own the Room:

How to Communicate to Be Seen, Heard and Respected


Own the Room is not a book about public speaking. It’s a book about human perception. Why do some people command attention the moment they walk into a room while others struggle to be heard? Why do certain leaders, salespeople, creators, and communicators create trust instantly while others feel forgettable—even when they’re more qualified? Because communication is never just about words. Before people evaluate your ideas, they evaluate you. Your confidence. Your certainty. Your emotional control. Your authenticity. Your presence. Human beings are constantly making unconscious decisions about who feels trustworthy, capable, safe, persuasive, and memorable long before logic enters the equation. In Own the Room, communication strategist Jake Stahl breaks down the hidden psychology behind influence, authority, trust, and presence in a way that is both deeply practical and psychologically precise. Drawing from decades of experience training professionals across industries, along with principles from behavioral psychology, social psychology, neuroscience, and NLP, Stahl reveals how subtle emotional signals shape every interaction we have. This book explores why people react differently to the exact same words depending on who says them, why approval-seeking weakens persuasion, how insecurity leaks through communication, and why emotional congruence matters more than rehearsed perfection. Readers will learn how to create psychological trust, regulate tension, project grounded confidence, and communicate in a way that makes people feel seen, understood, and certain. Whether in business, leadership, sales, relationships, negotiations, interviews, podcasts, presentations, or everyday conversations, Own the Room teaches readers how to stop performing and start communicating with clarity, authority, and emotional precision. Because the people who truly own the room are not always the loudest, smartest, or most charismatic. They’re the people who understand how the room works.




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ACCOUNTS RECEIVABLE: The Handbook For Managers and A/R Department ACCOUNTS PAYABLE: THE HANDBOOK FOR MANAGERS AND A/P DEPARTMENT

 ACCOUNTS RECEIVABLE: The Handbook For Managers and A/R Department

ACCOUNTS PAYABLE: THE HANDBOOK FOR MANAGERS AND A/P DEPARTMENT 


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"Accounts Receivable: The Handbook for Managers and A/R Department" by Dr. Lester G. Reid is a comprehensive guide designed for professionals involved in managing accounts receivable (AR) processes. This handbook aims to enhance the efficiency, accuracy, and compliance of AR departments, thereby supporting organizational financial health. It covers fundamental AR concepts, the complete AR process, and the importance of timely collections and precise record-keeping. The book emphasizes training and development, technology integration, compliance, and internal controls, offering practical advice and strategies for optimizing AR operations. With a focus on continuous improvement and leveraging modern technologies, this handbook is an indispensable resource for both seasoned managers and those new to the field, providing essential tools to master the complexities of accounts receivable in today's dynamic business environment.


Saturday, May 30, 2026

A Little Gift from Us to You… FREE May 29 – June 2, 2026

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A Little Gift from Us to You… FREE May 29 – June 2, 2026

What if the meaning of life isn’t something you chase down like a runaway shopping cart… but something you slowly learn to make peace with?

From May 29 through June 2, 2026, you can download Making Peace With Life FREE on Kindle, and step into a journey that’s equal parts honest, thoughtful, a little metaphysical, and just enough humor to keep you from taking everything too seriously. In this book, Dr. Rob Alex explores the full spectrum of life—the highs, the lows, and all the wonderfully confusing middle parts in between. It’s not about finding a finish line (because spoiler alert: there really isn’t one), but about understanding how every moment—good, bad, and “what just happened?”—fits into something bigger. You’ll dive into ideas about energy, connection, purpose, and why your life is both incredibly small in the grand scheme… and somehow still massively important at the same time. It’s like getting cosmic perspective with a side of “you’ve got this.”

And just when you thought the excitement stopped there… it doesn’t.

The MakePeaceWithLife.com website officially launches on June 1, 2026, along with the very first Make Peace With Life Podcast. So while you’re downloading the book and starting your journey, we’re rolling out a full experience to go along with it. Think of it as the universe saying, “Alright… let’s do this together.” So grab your free copy, take a breath, and get ready—because this is more than a book launch… it’s the beginning of something bigger.




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Friday, May 29, 2026

The Honu Diary: A Journey of Coming Together (The Pono Trilogy Book 2)

 

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The Honu Diary:

A Journey of Coming Together

(The Pono Trilogy Book 2)


Noelani Lee happily escaped the busyness of California city life to fulfill her post-divorce dream of starting fresh in a beautiful tropical paradise. Life would be easy peasy frolicking on pristine beaches with her sexy, much younger fiance…until it wasn’t. Her adoring fiancé, Rodrigo, enjoyed the reprieve from their hectic urban life. However, the idyllic island life wasn’t what Rodrigo wanted for their happily ever after. An enticing, once-in-a-lifetime job opportunity beckons him back to the states. Noelani’s ancient ancestors are summoning her to dive deeper into her spiritual legacy. Yet following her ancestor’s guidance could ultimately derail any future happiness with her soulmate and love of her life.







Thursday, May 28, 2026

Letters to La Nuit

 

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Letters to La Nuit


Imagine spending 17 years trying to master dance, only to end up trapped in mechanical, self-conscious movements. Olem Jazz, the protagonist of Letters to La Nuit, knows something vital is missing: the inner awakening that elevates motion into true art. Yet, his logical mind constantly blocks his path to transformation.
Just when Olem believes all hope is lost, fate forces him into the spotlight—not to shine, but to witness a charismatic young man steal the glory with absolute confidence, despite lacking the talent to sing. Together, these two contrasting figures must navigate the treacherous waters of fame, danger, and justice. The scales will balance before they even realize how much they are changing from within. Does tragedy lurk in the shadows, or is chaos simply finding its order? Find out in Letters to La Nuit, a gripping coming-of-age novel.
Now on Amazon.ca 📚 ✅️ 🔥

Now on my website amazon USA.
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Wednesday, May 27, 2026

Free Shipping, Good Vibes & Looking Cool: The Make Peace With Life Shirt Movement

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Free Shipping, Good Vibes & Looking Cool: The Make Peace With Life Shirt Movement

Let’s be honest…

There are few things in life more disappointing than finding the perfect shirt online, adding it to your cart, emotionally committing to it, and then suddenly getting attacked by shipping costs at checkout like:

“Surprise! That’ll be another $12.95 for the privilege of fabric transportation.”

Not anymore.

The Make Peace With Life shirts now come with FREE SHIPPING, because we believe getting something that spreads positivity, purpose, and good energy throughout the universe shouldn’t also require taking out a small loan to cover delivery fees.

That’s right.
You now get to pay less… for a shirt that actually gives you more.

More comfort.
More positivity.
More connection.
More style.
More energetic awesomeness.

And honestly?
That feels like a pretty solid life decision.

Click here to get your Make Peace With Life Shirt

But these shirts are more than just soft fabric and cool designs. They’re part of something bigger. Every time someone wears a Make Peace With Life shirt, they’re putting a message into the world that people genuinely need right now. In a world where stress, negativity, division, and doom-scrolling seem to compete for Olympic gold medals every single day, a simple positive message can actually shift someone’s energy. You never know who might see your shirt while standing in line for coffee, walking through the grocery store, or surviving another painfully awkward family gathering. One person reads “Make Peace With Life” and suddenly pauses for a moment. Maybe they smile. Maybe they breathe easier. Maybe they realize they’ve been way too hard on themselves lately. That’s real energy. That’s impact.

Because positivity spreads.

Energy spreads.

And yes… apparently cool shirts spread too.

There’s something powerful about wearing a message that reminds people life doesn’t have to be perfect to still be meaningful. These shirts quietly say:

“Hey… maybe we can all chill out a little, breathe deeper, and stop acting like every inconvenience is a full-scale spiritual emergency.”

And honestly, the world could use more of that.

Plus, let’s not ignore an important scientific fact:
These shirts also make you look cool.

Not just “nice shirt” cool.
We’re talking:

  • grounded-but-fun cool
  • peaceful-with-good-energy cool
  • probably-gives-great-life-advice cool
  • somehow-both-spiritual-and-hilarious cool

That kind of cool.

And the best part is these shirts are for everyone.

It doesn’t matter:

  • who you are
  • what you believe
  • what music you listen to
  • whether you meditate daily or just aggressively overthink in silence
  • whether you hike mountains or simply climb out of bed after hitting snooze four times

The Make Peace With Life message belongs to all of us.

Because peace is universal.
Growth is universal.
Human struggle is universal.
And wanting a comfortable shirt with free shipping is definitely universal.

At the end of the day, this movement has always been about more than clothing. It’s about connection, positivity, humor, perspective, and reminding people that even in the middle of life’s chaos, there’s still room for peace, laughter, kindness, and growth. Every shirt shared in the world becomes another small ripple of good energy moving outward into the collective human experience.

So yes…
You’re getting free shipping.

But you’re also helping spread a message the world desperately needs.

And honestly?
That’s a pretty good deal.

Click here to get your Make Peace With Life Shirt 


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