Monday, October 13, 2025

The New PSYCHOLOGY: A Unified Field of Brain, Mind, Behavior, Perception, Culture, Life…

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The New PSYCHOLOGY:

A Unified Field of Brain, Mind, Behavior, Perception, Culture, Life… 


 The New PSYCHOLOGY: A Unified Field of Brain, Mind, Behavior, Perception, Culture, Life… 480 pages, fully illustrated, 8 ½ X 11” 

From the mind of genius to the suicide bombers of today’s news, from science to sex, understanding is essential to psychology. Memorizing facts is not what psychology is about.  

   At the witch trials in Salem, when an accused “witch” was brought into court, adrenaline and cortisol would have shot into the blood of those who watched.  Neurotransmitters would have surged through their brain.  Their brain waves would have jumped from 12 to 40 cycles per second.   A P300 wave would have screamed “ALERT!”.   Their GSR spiked.  Their heart jumped.   A chill went up their spine.   The girls shrieked “Witch! Witch!”

   We know this because today, the same thing happens in America among theater goers in a movie from Hollywood about witches, zombies, demons, a scary “Chucky” doll, and more. As adrenalin and cortisol shoot into your blood, neurotransmitters surge through your brain, your heart jumps, and it grabs the immediate attention of your brain, as you watch the Zombie apocalypse in a theater.  In varying degrees, this is basic to understanding how our brain works in dealing with anxiety, depression, politics, love, sex, interpersonal relations, peer group pressure, your response on a polygraph or GSR, and every new witch hunt (see Ch. 2, 8, 19, 20 and 22).  


   Psychology controls the biology in our brain.  If we fail to understand this, we cannot understand how the human mind works. The failure to understand that has led to the media’s preoccupation with claiming it is all in your DNA or biochemistry.  Even our PhDs are shortchanged by this myth.


   The same psychology that controlled the emotions of the people of Salem, also controls our fears and anxiety, our depression and worries, our hope and success, and our very perception of reality, to this day.  Understanding this, gives us the potential to control our own mind.  To not understand this, is a failure of our educational system and our society.


    Years from now, we will probably have forgotten the studies about what the Frontal Lobes do, but all of us still remember the story of what happened to Phineas Gage when a steel rod was blown through the frontal lobes of his brain (see Chapter 4).

   We may only dimly remember the Formal Scientific Techniques, but we will remember how the best doctors in America opened a vein to bleed George Washington of 40% of his blood (he died), and Sear's Electric Belts, and witch hunts, and demon possession, and what that says about why we need the scientific methods (Ch. 1). 

   We will learn nothing from conditioning a dog to salivate to a bell, or memorizing CS, CR, UCS, and UCR; it will be lost in the backroads of their mind as soon as the test is over.  But we will remember how the Russians trained dogs to kill tanks in WWII and why this applies to the Kamikaze pilots, the suicide terrorists of 9/11, today’s politics, and interactions with others (see p. 156-and chapters 8-11). From those stories, we hope to have formed an understanding of how we know what we know about the mind.

   We may not remember the subtle force of words associated with emotion, but we will remember why a man who lived in a hole in the ground, eating rats, for 30 years, received “over 100 marriage proposals from awestruck women.”  Yes, really (p. 158).  We will learn why one of Picasso’s paintings recently sold at Sotheby’s auction for 157 million dollars, while the same painting with your name on it would ruin the value of the canvas it was painted on (p.167).  They will remember why Scarlett Johansson’s “snot” sold for $5,300 on eBay.  Yes, really (p. 158).  

   These are the bits and pieces that make up a deep understanding of how our mind works.  I hope I have done them justice.  Welcome to the deep woods...


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Sunday, October 12, 2025

Meet My Mother

 

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Meet My Mother


The author dedicated his true story, posthumously to the memory of his mother. He talks about what constitutes a "Quintessential Mother" by reflecting on the relationship between his mother and her adult children. He draws upon the seemingly endless love, admiration, and adoration for the importance of words his mother taught him and his siblings that we utter to friends and foe alike, and the immense power of prayers and forgiveness in our lives. He recalls how his "quintessential" Mother, who passed away at age 87, lived a life of remaining calm in the midst of raging storms. He recalls the Bible story they often read in the family devotion (while growing up in Nigeria), about Jesus and His disciples panicking and desperately fearful that the boat they were in with Jesus, (who was taking a nap at the time), was about to capsize as the raging storm battled them. You know the story so well, I am sure. Their panic awakened Jesus, who said to them: "O, ye, of little faith" and calmed the raging sea!" He recalls his mother's most powerful legacies to all her adult nine children. One such legacy is "Have you prayed about "it"? By this, she meant "Have you prayed and poured your heart to HIM about what is troubling your soul?" The other is that she reminded us of the Biblical injunction that says: " Be Still And Know That I Am God. He reminds people of all faiths, and creeds: Jews and Gentiles, White, Black, Hispanics, Muslims, Christians, Agnostic, Buddhists, etc., etc, that we are ALL brought to this terrestrial earth by women, adorable women, our mothers, who would rather lose the jewelry they wear around their necks, and the earrings that glitter in their earlobes than have their children's needs go unmet!. He puts it succinctly by telling this story: "My heart sank when I saw, recently on TV networks, a clip on the mother and father of their son, who was killed by the ruthless act of antisemitism and hate, by a group called ISIS, on a direct order by the president of the USA, "supposedly the greatest nation on earth". That clip reminded me that the love that that mother has for her adult child, who was killed, is, for lack of a better adjective, must be "consummate" love, next to God's redeeming love for comforting us in the midst of our sorrows!"

This is Dr. John Ayoola Akinyemi's true story about "Meet My Mother." He tells it compellingly well in a storytelling fashion that makes his readers feel like saying to him: "Been there, done that; " we know exactly what you are saying to us. This is the way that the author honors his "quintessential mother", whose job, like most mothers' jobs throughout the world, is never ending, never finished, very much unlike a conventional "job description" that most of us adhere to when we perform our paid jobs. What I am trying to say is: "You can never pay enough for what a mother does to her family. By default, and by way of applicability to the world at large, and quite frankly to humanity, we can NEVER pay enough money to recompense motherhood. So, I dedicate "Meet My Mother" to ALL MOTHERS, worldwide. KUDOS TO ALL MOTHERS! You are doing an amazing job!


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Dr. John Ayoola Akinyemi Honors His Mother in Meet My Mother

In Meet My Mother, Dr. John Ayoola Akinyemi dedicates a true and deeply personal story to the memory of his late mother, celebrating her as the embodiment of a “quintessential mother.” Through heartfelt reflection, he paints a portrait of a woman whose calm spirit, unwavering faith, and boundless love shaped the lives of her nine children and continues to inspire others beyond her family.

The book recalls how his mother lived a life of serenity even in the midst of raging storms, reminding her children through word and deed that prayer and trust in God are anchors of strength. One of her lasting legacies remains her gentle but powerful question: “Have you prayed about it?” With these words, she encouraged her family to bring their troubles before God, teaching them that faith and forgiveness can carry them through life’s most difficult challenges.

Interwoven with biblical stories shared during family devotions in Nigeria—such as Jesus calming the storm—Dr. Akinyemi connects his mother’s teachings to timeless lessons of courage and faith. Her guidance resonates not only within the family but also with readers from all walks of life, regardless of culture, creed, or background.

At its core, Meet My Mother is not only a tribute to one extraordinary woman but also to motherhood itself. Dr. Akinyemi reminds us that mothers across the world—whether Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Buddhist, or otherwise—share a universal devotion that cannot be measured or repaid. He draws parallels between his own experiences and those of mothers everywhere, highlighting how their sacrifices and unconditional love sustain families and communities.

By honoring his mother, who passed away at the age of 87, Dr. Akinyemi extends his gratitude to all mothers worldwide. His story is both personal and universal, a testament to love that transcends time, faith, and culture. In his words, “KUDOS TO ALL MOTHERS! You are doing an amazing job!”




Saturday, October 11, 2025

The Writing on the Wall by Molly Day

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Famous crime novelist Kennedy Clark is drawn into a police investigation when someone begins copying the murders in her books. Horrified, she is determined to do whatever she can to help catch the killer.


Detective Levi Varrone doesn’t like anything about these cases, including having a civilian involved. There is something different about them compared to the “average” murder. His instincts have never failed him before but going up against someone like this will take everything in both him and his partner Chelsea Strong, who has her own motivations.


Will they be able to catch the killer before it’s too late? Especially once they seem to be targeting Kennedy specifically...


Excerpt:


“What are we looking at here?” Levi asked the first officers to the scene after showing his badge.


“A woman hung upside down by electrical cords with the letter C carved into her forehead,” an officer said a bit queasily. “We don’t know cause of death yet.”


“I think I know,” Strong said grimly.


Levi raised an eyebrow. “You do? We just got here.”


“I recognize this setup too. The electrical cords…the letter C…it’s from Kennedy Clark’s book Three to Make Ready. In that book, the victim was electrocuted.”


Kennedy Clark again! Was this the same killer? Were they just choosing random victims to reenact Clark’s books with?


Levi didn’t want to believe they were dealing with a serial killer who was able to change their MO so easily. That would make them much harder to catch.


“We need to ID her first and foremost. See if this was someone close to her who just copied Clark’s book to throw us off,” Levi said grimly.


“And if it wasn’t? What if this is the same nutjob who killed Skidmore?” Strong demanded.


“Then we have a serial killer on our hands. One who is a major fan of Kennedy Clark.”

Review:

Molly Day’s “The Writing on the Wall” is a taut, emotionally charged mystery-drama that blurs the line between fiction and reality in chilling fashion. With a premise that hooks from the start—a crime novelist whose fictional murders begin manifesting in real life—Day crafts a slowburn thriller that’s as psychologically compelling as it is suspenseful.

At the heart of the novel is Kennedy Clark, a bestselling author whose vivid imagination becomes a liability when a killer begins reenacting scenes from her books. Day deftly explores Kennedy’s inner turmoil, guilt, and fear, especially as suspicion turns toward her. 

From the start, there is undeniable tension between Kennedy and Detective Levi Varrone, whose skepticism and grit make him a formidable foil. Their dynamic, along with Levi’s partner Chelsea Strong—who harbors her own motivations—adds layers of complexity to the investigation.

Day’s writing is cinematic, with visceral imagery and sharp dialogue. The descriptions of crime scenes are haunting and evocative, successfully setting the tone for a story that doesn’t flinch from the macabre. Yet beneath the horror lies a poignant exploration of obsession, family loyalty, and the burden of creativity. 

Kennedy’s relationship with her sister Reagan, a lawyer fiercely protective of her, injects warmth and humanity into the narrative, grounding the protagonist in a world that feels lived-in and emotionally resonant.

The novel’s structure, beginning with a present-day interrogation and flashing back to Kennedy’s writing struggles and personal triumphs, creates a compelling dual timeline that mirrors the unraveling mystery. 

“The Writing on the Wall” is more than a whodunit; it’s a meditation on the power of storytelling and the dangerous allure of fame. As Kennedy grapples with the consequences of her own imagination, readers are invited to question the boundaries between the author and the audience, between fiction and reality. Molly Day delivers a gripping, layered narrative that lingers long after the final page.

Our verdict: This book is a must-read for fans of psychological thrillers, crime fiction, and character-driven drama.

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Friday, October 10, 2025

Upside Down

 

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After his sister Shelly’s funeral, Caleb feels the world collapse—and then it literally turns. He awakens suspended beneath reality, standing on a sheet of opaque glass, hearing only muffled echoes from above. This inverted purgatory—the Upside Down—is a place where grief takes form, where emotions are stripped raw, and where the facades people wear in the “real” world dissolve into their truest, most broken selves. He’s not alone. Maddy, the woman he once loved and lost, has been trapped down here for years. But she isn’t the Maddy he remembers. This version is unfiltered, devastated, and bracingly honest. Her first words cut through him: “I’m devastated you’re here.” The deeper Caleb wanders, the more he realizes this realm isn’t just his grief. Many exist both above and below—their surface selves calloused, guarded, and numb, while their inverted counterparts writhe with the pain they’ve buried. It’s a haunting revelation: nearly everyone carries unspoken traumas powerful enough to fracture reality itself. But not everyone wants to heal. Sebastian, a figure born of unrelenting anguish, thrives in this world of shadows and suffering. His presence proves that unaddressed pain doesn’t just trap—it consumes. And he’ll do anything to keep Caleb and Maddy from escaping. To become whole again, Caleb and Maddy must confront not only the betrayals and secrets that broke them apart, but also the family wounds and hidden truths that have chained them here. Together, they must decide: face the traumas that destroyed them… or surrender to the Upside Down forever, where strangers wear the faces of who they used to be. And with their counterparts in the real world no longer speaking, staying below means letting each other go for good. Upside Down is a psychological thriller of grief, love, and survival—where healing means braving the rawest parts of ourselves, and where not everyone wants to be saved.


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Thursday, October 9, 2025

Proof of the Existence of God: Confronting Science

 

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Proof of the Existence of God:

Confronting Science


WHEN FAITH CONFRONTS SCIENCE

Dare to question, but be ready to believe.

“Does God Exist?” This is an age-old debate. Interestingly, those who say “No” often cite science as the basis for their opinion. They openly state that “There is no proof of the existence of God.”

However, there is proof of the existence of God. There is more than ample proof of His existence. There is more evidence than anyone will ever need if one was willing to look in the right places, if one was open to that proof, and if one does not block or eliminate the proof or otherwise redefine or pre-determine the scientific criteria despite the evidence.

Carl Sagan once wrote, “Extraordinary claims, require extraordinary evidence.” This book presents Ten Observable, Demonstrable, and Verifiable sets of facts that prove the existence of God. Not one, not two, but ten. Any one set of these proofs by itself would demonstrate it, but together they provide overwhelming, if not incontestable, evidence of the existence of God. Most of these have been authenticated as true, valid, and reliable evidence. They have been proven not to be false, dishonest or fabricated.

In 
Proof of the Existence of God, this bold and thought-provoking book takes you into a realm where belief meets science. Whether you're a seeker, a skeptic, or a believer looking to deepen your convictions, this book offers ten sets of powerful phenomena that challenge the assumption that the natural and supernatural must be at odds.

This author lays out a compelling case for the reality of God. Rather than preaching or assuming belief, the book invites you on a journey — one that respects doubt but also presents a structured and persuasive case for why belief in God is not only rational, but reality. It is a where faith is supported by both reason, and also evidence and observable truths.

Whether you're wrestling with doubt, exploring life's deeper meaning, or simply curious about the age-old question of God’s existence, 
Proof of the Existence of God is a must-read. It's not just a book — it's an invitation to consider a truth that could transform the way you see everything.

Most people believe in science and in faith. Some people, however, only believe in science. To these people all that matters is empirical evidence, facts, data and substantiation. The majority of these people aren’t against faith, though, they just believe that if something cannot be measured, tested, and replicated then it simply isn’t “real.”

But Faith and Science are not mutually exclusive. Faith does not exclude science.
First, this book begins with basic discussions of the shortfalls of science, and how there is an intersect between the Supernatural and the Natural, and this is where “science can find proof of God”.
Second, the book discusses background information on three findings to set a preliminary discussion on the existence of God. The book discusses the scientific models proving the existence of God, discusses agnostics and hard-core atheists who have converted, and discusses scientists themselves who do believe. The book discusses background information about Christphobia, miracles, and the laws of “evidence.”
Finally, the book presents and defines ”Ten Sets of Phenomena” that clearly support the finding that God Exists.

Be prepared for facts that 99 percent of people have never been exposed to. Remember, God exists… keep the faith always!

Dare to question, but be ready to believe.

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Wednesday, October 8, 2025

Systems, Mindsets and Habits: How High Achievers Overcome Setbacks, Grow Consistently, and Thrive

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You don't need more hustle. You need leverage. Systems, Mindsets, and Habits isn't another book of recycled tactics or hollow motivation. It's a tactical, no-fluff guide for high achievers who want to break through plateaus and finally build a business—and life—that scales. Inside, ten proven voices share the real stories behind the scars: the moments they stalled, sabotaged, burned out, and came back stronger. These aren't shortcuts. They're systems. You'll learn: Why success triggers fear in high performers—and how to break that loop (Robert Glover) How to sharpen your thinking so your strategies actually work (Jeffrey Scheuer) Why strength is a choice—and a business advantage (Phil Ross) How to use AI as a mirror, not a crutch (Rebecca Shaddix) How to scale with infrastructure, not adrenaline (Michael Sakata) Why the old “full-service” agency model is broken—and how fractional, senior-level marketing talent can outperform it (Katie Gray) What every failing funnel is trying to tell you—and how to fix it fast (Skip Wilson) Why the biggest bottleneck is usually the founder—and how to get out of your own way (Amber Gaige) Why your word—and follow-through—is your most powerful sales tool (Steve Griggs) How to get unstuck with nothing more than a doc, a spreadsheet, and a doodle (Robert Plank) This is the book you pick up when you're tired of rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic. When you're done chasing shiny objects. When you're ready to think more clearly, execute more consistently, and finally lead with calm, clarity, and confidence. This isn't about doing more. It's about doing what works.

The Beach of Second Chances

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If a near-death vision pushed you to start over, would you risk your new life and your new love to face the past? 

Brad Chatsworth is a young, prominent attorney in Baltimore, poised to become a full partner in his family's prestigious law firm. Wealthy and handsome, he is expected to marry the daughter of his father's partner in the firm. All goes well until a life-threatening incident leaves Brad unconscious. While under, he goes on an unbelievable journey, and when he awakens in the hospital, he's a changed man. His mission? Self-discovery. He adopts a new identity, moves to a beach town, and, to his surprise, finds love and a sense of purpose. However, an unexpected event back home forces him to return, disrupting his second chance at life. And his first chance at true love. Nothing in life ever stays the same; we all know that. And Brad's been gone for a while. Nothing is as it once was at the beach. You don't want to miss Brad in action when he goes back home or his return to the beach. The Beach of Second Chances. Both are full of surprises.